Forrest Landry and Daniel Schmachtenberger
Morality vs Ethics
- What differentiates morals from ethics?
- Moral looks like context specific rules (e.g. 10 commandments)
- Ethics is expressed in general principles, from which morals can be derived (e.g. “Treat others as you’d like to be treated”)
- Principles are more general and abstract but can be translated into any context
- Principles can help us devise and update rules as the environment changes
Objective, Existing or Real?
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Exists: Content/context relationship
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Objective: measurable by more than one person (intersubjective)
- Basis of the scientific method
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Real: Subject object relationship/interaction (capacity to sense)
- Choice and ethics rely on what’s real more than what’s objective (?)
- Not necessarily looking at what’s repeatable, but unique situation
Symmetry & Continuity
Symmetry
- Sameness of content, difference of context (water bottle has same amount of water before and after you drive it to a friends’ house… conservation law)
- Scientific laws are formulated around the concept of symmetry, using the = sign
- Allows to predict the future in some situations
- Not useful for subjective problems/questions
- Doesn’t allow us to know what is better
- Allows to predict the future in some situations
Continuity
- Sameness of content, sameness of context (concept of no abrupt shifts)
- Useful for subjective perspectives
- Inner subjective experience has a continuity (I feel the same person as I was yesterday)
- Neuroscience takes a third person (symmetry) perspective on subjective experience, not a good proxy for the first person perspective
Ethics
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Symmetry concepts dominated the discussion because external phenomena are easier to see
- Many of our ingrained assumptions are based on symmetry
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Today’s problems require a different approach to deal with them
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Utilitarian ethics is dominating the discussion using the concept of optimization, not accounting that the context is continuously changing (what worked in the past won’t necessarily work)
- 2 contexts we should take into account: The world, the subjective (previous experiences, choices, values)
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choice-making more as a search problem, than an optimization one
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Symmetry ethics: I deal with you in a way that I’d be willing to be on the other side of the deal
- Golden rule
- I slice the pie you choose
- Talking about a topic, I should say the same thing whether I talk to this person or this other (otherwise it would be a deceit)
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Continuity ethics (concept of time is involved)
- Giving notice before leaving an apartment
- Severance after firing an employee
- Talking through decisions before making it
- The same person (subjective context is the same) in the same situation (same objective context), should respond (content of expression) in the same way
- In a slightly different situation I should respond in a similar way and be able to account for the difference
Choice
- Choice as a search function, not an optimization one
- What is the thing we dream of?
- 3 aspects of choice
- Potential - There needs to be options to select from
- Selection - One option is selected
- Causation - Non-reversible outcome (if choice doesn’t create change in the world it’s as if it didn’t happen)
Choice vs. Decision
- Decision - de-cide - to cut off available options
- Assume there’s no win-win possible
- Assumes completeness of information
- Choice is about increasing the field of options available until the right option becomes obvious
- Assumes we can never have perfect information
- Assumes win-win choice is always possible (we may not be able to find it, but it exists), which makes it worthwhile to search
Integrity/Aliveness/Meaningfulness
How I connect to the world should build the world’s integrity (aliveness/meaningfulness), my integrity and the relationship between Self and World integrity
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Integrity as full realization of actuality (what we can do) and potentiality (what we could do)
- (eat the cake and have it too)
- A choice that has no actuality (no outcome), is indistinguishable from not having made a choice at all
- A choice that restricts all your future choices (restricts potentiality), a choice that does not further (i.e. evil)
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We want a choice that has consequences, and that begets future choices (for us an others
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Full actuality removes all potentiality and viceversa
- Empty garden is full potentiality and no actuality
- We want to make actuality and potentiality work together in balance
- Committing to a choice but being open and flexible to changing it
- Being, Doing, Becoming model for Personal Development (Meaningful Life)
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Sacrifice self for other, other for self, future for now or now for future, are all theories of trade-offs that don’t equal the best consideration
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A good choice is one that you can clearly think and feel through in a positive way
Love
Love is that that enables choice
- Not making choices for the people we love, but enabling them
- If we love our children we want them to be wise and able to make choices on their own
- Love is irrational
- If you tell someone “I love you because…”, they will be afraid that if they stop that you’ll stop loving them
Clarity & Desire
- If I want to be in right relationship with other people I need to be in right relationship with myself (among my parts)
- Develop continuity of self
- Developing clarity
- Buddhist idea that “desire is the cause of suffering”, may be mostly referring to desires that are not fully clarified.
- Clarity in desire
Meaningfulness
- Notion of Meaningfulness contingent on a first person perspective
- Not about “this is only meaningful if they’ll remember it after 100 years”
- About “Am I appreciating and honoring the gift of life?” (Meaningness)
Created on: 2021-10-31 Source link:https://neurohacker.com/what-is-ethics-an-exploration-of-choice-and-love